boundaries

After struggling with an innerconflict I've dealt with for quite some time. I finally made  a decision about it and went with it. I'm not sure if I did it with some alternative motives in mind, maybe I did, maybe I didn't. But I made my decision and can't go back on it now, it's too late. Only time will tell what the future will bring but I think I just opened myself up to a lot of pain and suffering, but did it because I care and was willing to take it on.

The question of loyalty is always a hard one to argue, especially as a guy. We tend to stick together, just like women tend to stick together. When is this unspoken guy code off limits, and when isn't it? When is it absolute and when is it unethical? Well I made my decision, the code doesn't exist, it doesn't feel right. Doing what is right and feels right, is more important and... hehe.. right.

Iron Man out...